Why Do I Keep Attracting the Same Energy?
I know so many of us notice this IN OUR LIVES AS WE NAVIGATE these tough spiritual waters in relationships like family, friendships and love.
It's this unraveling of the new, and at the same time the unraveling of the old, and meet me in the present. It's meeting a different person and the same dynamic in real time. Like familiar and not familiar.
Different relationship.
Same emotional experience.
Same triggers and reminding you of someone else.
For me, it was literally seeing the person's face in my mind's eye, and I would say within myself, "wow, this feels familiar". I hardly knew what any of this meant, or I would make the excuse that the universe helped me meet this person. I had no idea that I was recycling energy through most of my meetings with people or that the Universal Laws were at play here............
What about a Different job?
Did you ever get a new job and have similar feelings or triggers come up ...and wonder, "What is going on here, and why am I feeling the same as I did at the last job I had?"
Same feeling of being undervalued and maybe colleagues not valuing you too. Or maybe you are like I was and staying loyal and shutting your voice, only to be promoted over.
or
Overproductive and underpaid?
Is any of this resonating?
This literally was my life in real time until 7 years ago. Cycling through karmic knots, relationship hardships, and me diving deeper into myself like you would not believe. Until I finally had enough!
At some point you have to ask:
“Why does this keep happening, and where is the spiritual ROOT?"
This isn't about blaming yourself for everything that happens to you.
It is about becoming curious about what your internal world may be repeatedly organizing around.
We often recognize what feels familiar before we recognize what is healthy.
If chaos was familiar, peace can initially feel uncomfortable.
If overgiving was how you earned love, receiving may feel unsafe.
If you learned to abandon yourself to keep relationships, boundaries can feel like rejection.
This is why changing the external circumstance without changing the internal pattern can create the same experience with a different face.
Try this today:
Think about three situations in your life that seem completely unrelated.
Ask:
What emotional experience do all three have in common?
Maybe it is:
Not being seen.
Having to prove yourself.
Feeling responsible for everyone.
Feeling rejected.
Being controlled.
The vibe is "off" and I don't know why.
Giving more than you receive.
Having to over-explain
Giving reasons around boundary
Feeling like you have to earn love.
Now ask:
“Where did I first learn that this was normal or what age was I when I was feeling this way?”
Don't force an answer.
Let one arise.
Your goal isn't to blame your past.
Your goal is to recognize the blueprint.
Because you cannot consciously change a pattern you have never learned to see.
The external world may be showing you where your internal work is asking for attention.
And when the inner relationship changes, your choices begin to change.
Then your boundaries change.
Your standards change.
Your nervous system begins recognizing something different.
And eventually, what you tolerate changes.
If you're ready to stop asking “Why does this keep happening to me?” and start exploring “What is this experience showing me about myself?”, book a Sacred Connect Call with me. I will be waiting..........
Hustle and Grace in this Space,
Joann
Soul Alignment Coach, RTT Hypnotherapy, IET/Reiki Master Teacher/Multi-dimensional healing, Land Clearing/Energy Clearings
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