Venus in Scorpio: Rebooting Your Relationships From the Inside Out
The next several months are going to knock us all on our spiritual 3D ass in a good way.
Venus in Scorpio is an invitation to go beneath the surface. This energy will invite us in to see where we have been hiding our true desires and where we have been shutting out what we really want, because we think we don't deserve it. This time is a really good time to get real and deep with our SOUL. This is the spiritual work that I love... because this is where real transformation happens. We will all be asked to look at ourselves.... and
Not just:
“Do I love this person?”
But:
“What is actually happening underneath this relationship?”
Where are you attached?
Where are you afraid?
Where are you withholding?
Where are you performing?
Where are you holding back love as punishment or needing validation?
Where are you trying to control an outcome, so you are not willing to receive love?
Where have you confused intensity with intimacy?
Scorpio asks us to tell the truth. Not only to ourselves, but to OTHERS and let go of the fear around it.
And relationships can become powerful mirrors for the parts of ourselves we haven't fully reclaimed.
Your relationship reboot this month, and I am going to do it with you (ANYONE who messages me on IG gets a special gift because I want to hear from you):
Choose one relationship right now.
Instead of asking what the other person needs to change, ask yourself:
1. Where am I not being honest with myself?
2. What am I tolerating that I secretly resent?
3. Where am I abandoning myself to maintain connection?
4. What am I expecting someone else to give me that I need to learn to give myself?
5. What truth have I been avoiding?
Then practice one new behavior.
Have the conversation and make the call.
Have the conversation.
Maintain respect between both and have integrity- let go of the outcome of the ending.
Create the boundary.
Stop overexplaining.
Don't say yes right away to the invite or say yes.
Say what you actually feel. No blame here. No yelling.
Or, maybe, choose silence instead of reacting and just listen to them talk.
And perhaps the deeper lesson for humanity and me included:
We cannot create conscious relationships while operating from unconscious patterns.
The evolution of relationship isn't simply about finding the "right person."
It's also about becoming a person who can participate in relationships consciously and having compassion for yourself as you grow and as others grow.
Love asks us to meet ourselves.
And sometimes the relationship that changes your life is the one that finally shows you where you've been leaving yourself. Love you so much- I want you whole and shining your light now...even if it's one spiritual glow up a week.
Want to explore your relationship patterns at a deeper level?
Book a Sacred Connect Call with Joann and begin uncovering the identity patterns underneath your relationships.
Hustle and Grace in this Space,
Joann
Soul Alignment Coach, RTT Hypnotherapy, IET/Reiki Master Teacher/Multi-dimensional healing, Land Clearing/Energy Clearings
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