Do you feel lost?
“I Feel Like I'm Becoming Someone Else.”
Have you ever felt like the version of you that used to fit your life suddenly doesn't?
All your friendships feel different, or the minute you speak up, everything goes quiet, or gaslighting is happening.
The people you thought you could trust suddenly don't even know how to respond to you.
I am here to tell you that this always happens on the spiritual journey and continues to happen as you shift consciousness. You tolerate less, and more is revealed.
Your priorities will change.
Your tolerance changes with yourself and others.
Your dreams change.
The things that once excited you don't anymore.
And somewhere inside you is this strange feeling:
“I know I'm becoming someone else, but I don't know who yet.”
The feeling of "lost" or just "blah" is really real.
It's something that I have felt and now, at this big shift of a time line am feeling it again.
It's so uncomfortable and also exciting. Because I now know the energy, now know that so much good is coming.
This can feel incredibly uncomfortable.
Because identity gives us familiarity.
Even an identity we have outgrown can feel safer than the unknown.
You may find yourself grieving an old version of yourself while simultaneously feeling pulled toward something new that you can't quite feel into yet.
That is an identity transition.
Don't rush to define the new you.
Instead, ask:
What am I no longer willing to be?
What am I no longer willing to tolerate?
What values are becoming more important to me?
What version of myself keeps trying to emerge?
What would I do differently if I trusted myself?
Then begin practicing that identity in small ways.
The new you doesn't arrive all at once.
She—or he—is built through repeated choices.
One boundary.
One conversation.
One courageous decision.
One moment of choosing yourself.
Again.
And again.
And again.
You don't have to know exactly who you're becoming to stop being who you've outgrown.
Hustle and Grace in the same space,
Joann
Joann Malanga
Soul Alignment Coach, RTT Hypnotherapy, IET/Reiki Master Teacher/Multi-dimensional healing, Land Clearing/Energy Clearings
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