Energetic Relationships

Calling in Energetically Authentic Relationships: Clearing the Old, Aligning with the New

If you’re here, it means you are ready.

You are no longer willing to entertain relationships that drain you, confuse you, or keep you stuck in outdated cycles.

You are done with one-sided connections, misaligned partnerships, and people who don’t see your worth.

You are ready to clear the old and call in the new—relationships that are energetically aligned, deeply nourishing, and reflective of your highest self.

But here’s the truth: Before you can attract something new, you must make space for it.

1. Release the Old Energetic Attachments

Old patterns don’t just exist in your mind—they live in your energy field, nervous system, and subconscious mind. If you’ve felt stuck in cycles of unavailable love, betrayal, miscommunication, or feeling unseen, it’s time to clear those cords once and for all.

Ask yourself:

• What relationship patterns have I repeated over and over?

• Where have I settled for less than I deserve?

• What parts of me are still emotionally tied to old relationships?

👉 Cord-Cutting Ritual: Close your eyes, visualize the energetic cords between you and past relationships, and imagine a beam of light dissolving them. Say: “I release all energetic attachments that no longer serve my highest good. I am free.”

2. Rewrite Your Subconscious Love Story

Your relationships are a reflection of what you believe you deserve. If deep down, you still hold onto the belief that love is hard, people always leave, or you have to prove your worth, you will keep manifesting relationships that mirror those wounds.

It’s time to shift the narrative.

👉 Journaling Exercise:

• “The love I now attract is…” (Describe your ideal relationship, the way it feels, the way it supports your highest self.)

• “I am now choosing to believe…” (Write a new belief about love: “I am deeply loved and cherished,” “I am worthy of easy, nourishing love.”)

3. Embody the Energy of the Relationships You Desire

Energetically aligned relationships come when you become the vibration of the love you seek.

• Want a partner who is emotionally available? Be emotionally available for yourself first.

• Want friendships that feel deep and authentic? Show up in the world with openness and authenticity.

• Want to be met at your highest level? Stop entertaining relationships that pull you back into old versions of yourself.

👉 Daily Practice:Ask yourself: “If I already had the love and relationships I desire, how would I show up today?” Then act as if—because your frequency will create your reality.

4. Strengthen Your Boundaries & Self-Respect

A crucial part of clearing old patterns is stopping the cycle before it starts again. Boundaries are your way of telling the universe: “I will not accept less than what I deserve.”

• Say NO to relationships that feel confusing, inconsistent, or draining.

• Say YES to connections that feel clear, reciprocal, and expansive.

👉 Affirmation: “I trust myself to recognize and align with only healthy, soul-nourishing relationships.”

5. Call in Your Energetic Matches

Now that you’ve cleared the old, you are a magnet for new aligned relationships.

🔥 You will attract people who honor you, because you now honor yourself.🔥 You will meet those who see you, because you now fully see yourself.🔥 You will experience deep, authentic love, because you have become it.

Enjoy.....now go connect!

Hustle and Grace in the Same space,

Joann